Growth · June 3, 2026 · 5 min read
PUSH BACK
Don’t let the setback win In life, we all have to continue living, but do we sit still and accept setbacks? No. What you do is to get up, dust
Blue;white squared or cube dress uniform in nursery school,as the only daughter in the family. ‘’Laugh at the word ‘only’ but yeah I considered myself as the only daughter because I only had two brothers during that time. I completed my nursery class and primary one in the village. I considered myself smart at that young age because I was the youngest and the smallest in my class.
However, that changed quickly when I moved to the city with my father, so many rules to follow, I was told to repeat my class. Well because of how small I was and how no-challant, I repeated the class, which is a whole year. The good part of that is that, I was relearning, most of the stuff I already know is “ A win is a win” . My big head was happy but you know, I was letting those students ahead know that I will be in the same class as them if I was not held back.
I was not able to complete my primary school with the same school, as i move to another state and guess what another
Repeated Again Yes, I repeated class four, not because I was dumb or stupid, but if you ask me why, I do not have any answer. You might be asking the “why” question but I will only say may be because the school can.
SECONDARY CLASS
You might think that nursery and primary school was the only push back I got. No, I was pushed back three times in the same class before I graduated from high school.
Did I cry , yes it is like the whole world collapsed , but the way I look at life is very different- having undergone a major life crisis, I take life so slowly and enjoy it when I can.
Don’t let the setback win
In life we all have to continue living, but do we sit still and accept setback No. what you do is to get up, dust yourself up and go
Jay Shetty on his episode with Alex Warren noted something very significant that I still think of: “Can the deepest scars of our past be transformed into the very melodies that heal a global audience?” ponder on that (“Jay Shetty & Alex Warren ON the Hidden Battles of a Star,” 2026). Read more about his post on
Even the bible says
"For though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again, but the wicked stumble when calamity strikes." [1, 2, 3] and the book of 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 – "We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed."
Believe in yourself and know that you can do it, read the bible, pray and trust God. with him everything is possible
— Erself